Question and Answer

I have come to a conclusion that staying mad at someone only expends more energy than forgiving them for faults of the past. I've come to terms to the abrupt end to a rather quick mating dance. I've come to question many things and found answers that never really satisfied my search. Same hunger for answers on questions long been in my mind about tradition in the catholic church. It took more than 10 years for it to be answered. But what needs to be highlighted is that it was answered, and to my own satisfaction. So maybe, what resulted in this quick interlude will make me want to search for knowledge, to patch up any holes in my character, to know that all are not perfect and that each of us has some good in them.

If you've come to know FW, you'd know that he is a good friend to many people. You'll see how much loyalty is given to him by those who consider him a friend. His fault lies in his relationship with women, among many that I am not privy to. He intends to wed someday. Raise a family and be happy. If that's the case, then he will, in his own time, see the flaw of his actions and change to find the right woman, friend, partner, wife to spend his life with. Until then, I hope him best. I pray he finds what he's looking for. And I wish for him the wisdom to realize that leaving behind a trail of broken hearts and angry beings is not quite the legacy one would want to look back on.

I for one am not perfect either. But at least I'm open to what others think and would strive towards the change. I question, I search, I find the answer. It's the only way to grow, and live life. If not, why bother living?